Posts Tagged ‘Women’

Things You Could Do To Stay and Feel Safe on Public Transport

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

Most journeys that involve public transport are usually very safe, but there might be a time when you do feel particularly vulnerable on a journey so it makes sense to be prepared.

If you do feel threatened on public transport it’s important to get to a place of safety immediately.

Get up and move and never show that you are frightened and always project an air of confidence and calm always use and project strong body language as sometimes that alone will be enough.

Change carriages if you are able or go and sit next to the guard if there is one, or if you can sit with a group of people or a family and explain to them that you feel threatened and could you sit with them please or If you feel confident enough get off at the next stop but do try to make sure there are people around.

If you really feel there is no alternative and are feeling frightened and being threatened, don’t be afraid to pull the communication chord and also scream and shout and make as much noise as you possibly can. This should be enough to deter most people as they are purely opportunists and looking for an easy target, don’t be that target.

On buses always sit in an aisle seat if you possibly can, that way you can’t be hemmed against the window.

If you can’t get an aisle seat try to sit behind the driver as all buses now have two way radios and help can be summoned very quickly.

If you should find yourself unavoidably at lonely bus stops or on quiet platforms always sit or stand in a well lit area or as close to a group of people that you can and preferably next to the green intercoms that most stations have nowadays.

Bus stations and bus stops can be confusing and lonely places so always make sure that you know the destination of your bus and always try to get clear directions at the other end if you are going to unfamiliar territory.

If you do need to ask directions at the other end try to ask the driver or ask at a petrol station or shop but never ask a total stranger as they could follow you and take advantage of your disorientation.

This kind of incident has been known to happen.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

How Can Our Body Language Give Us Away and make Us Potential Victims?

Monday, February 15th, 2010

55% of any message we give out is “unconscious” and we are constantly giving out these signals on a regular and daily basis and other people are “reading” our body language all the time.

Think about it. How many times do you make a judgement on someone you’ve just met, whether it be positive or negative based on the “signal” that they are giving off?

It’s automatic, something you just do without even thinking about it.

People are telling other people more about themselves and the state of mind that they are in than they actually think they are and are doing it all day, everyday.

It’s time to become aware!

Stand straight with your head held high,  not only will this benefit your overall posture but it will enable you to see where you’re going and spot any potential danger signs. This doesn’t mean that you have to be paranoid every time you go out but it does make you aware.

If you constantly walk around in a “slouched” position, head low and generally not paying much attention to your surroundings, what kind of signal do you think you’re sending out?

How many times do you just walk around with your head filled with other things? When you’re in a rush how many times have you taken short cuts that you know you shouldn’t and worse still, justified it to yourself so that you could save yourself two or three minutes.

If you’re walking down the street oblivious to everything apart from your mobile telephone or busy texting as you’re walking along you’re a target.

Try to be aware at all times, stand erect, walk straight, don’t necessarily look people straight in the eyes but let them know that you know that they are there. Try not to take isolated shortcuts no matter how tempting across waste ground, dark alleys or parks and try to stay in public view.

But most of all, Pay attention!

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Some Useful Tips for Weight Gain

Monday, February 8th, 2010

Try to have at least 6 eating points in the day.  Divide your food intake into 3 meals and 3 snacks each day.  Plan this the day before, and ensure shopping trips make provision for lots of appealing foods and snacks.

Always prepare foods or snacks for work, and keep a supply of non-perishable, high-energy nibbles in your desk drawer in a tin or container.

Always start the day with breakfast, which will start the metabolic process and encourage you to eat earlier in the day.  Choose a breakfast that is particularly appetising, as breakfast can often be difficult for low calorie eaters.

Eat larger portions that you normally would, but don’t eat to excess.  Research shows us that we eat more when variety is involved.  Normally more is eaten if there is a significant variety in food type, or meal components differ significantly.  Ensure meals are sufficiently variable on the plate with lots of different food types.

Try to have two or three course meals, which will encourage more consumption.  This does not have to mean elaborate, lengthy meals it may simply take the form of a starter such as cheese, and finishing with a sweet desert.

Supplement your food intake with nutritious drinks such as smoothies, milk shakes and yoghurt drinks.  Make a fruit smoothie each day, and drink it throughout the day, or purchase commercial meal replacement drinks and use “in addition” to meals.

Use high energy or protein bars as snacks.  Experiment with different flavours and brands to find one that suits your taste.  Try commercial weight gain powders as used by bodybuilders and athletes and mix with whole or semi skimmed milk.

Snack on calorie dense natural foods such as dried fruit, nuts & seeds, cereal or fruit bars and sports nutrition bars. Use avocado and olives. Add dried fruit, sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds and chopped nuts to cereals and yoghurt.  Canned fruit in syrup, dried fruits, fruit nectars

Rather than simply drinking water, mix it 50/50 with a fruit juice.  Be adventurous and try tropical and exotic fruit flavours and keep trying new mixtures.

Activity is vital as is a structured weight management programme!

In terms of activity the best type for putting on weight and maintaining a strong healthy body with a sturdy muscular frame and strong bones is resistance training i.e. weight training or weight lifting but always under the supervision of an instructor or gym if just starting to exercise again.

All activities such as walking swimming badminton jogging and aerobics will provide a healthy frame and a healthy lifestyle.

And if you are trying to gain weight do not indulge in excess cardio work as this will only burn off the extra weight you are trying to gain.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

If You’re Underweight and Would Like To gain Weight, You Have To Incorporate It Into a Healthy Lifestyle

Thursday, February 4th, 2010

The essence of weight gain requires that the body be in overall energy surplus for a sufficient period of time to activate the adipose tissues (fat storage sites) to promote the uptake of excess energy (dietary calories) and convert it into stored energy as body fat.

Additional body fat may also lead to an increase in lean body mass, as the bones muscles and supporting tissues increase in density and size to accommodate the heavier overall body mass.  This increase in weight may not always occur straight away, particularly in lean individuals, which is why a sustained effort to gain weight may be required.

At this moment in time, the systems of energy regulation (weight control) are not fully understood.

For-instance, why is it that some people can be in significant energy surplus (eating more calories than they are expending in physical activity and bodily functions) for long periods of time and not gain weight, whilst others are extremely efficient at storing almost all available excess energy, and are inclined to put on weight readily.

Clearly there is a genetic influence on weight gain, and individuals need to adopt eating and lifestyle habits accordingly to maintain a healthy bodyweight and or appropriate levels of body fat.

Therefore the principal of eating for weight gain is clearly to ensure that the body is in energy surplus for the majority of the time.  The aim should be to prepare a strategy to ensure that adequate food is available at all times, and that time management and planning allow for sufficient breaks to take regular meals and snacks.

Where poor appetite is at the root of low bodyweight, the focus should be on selecting more flavoured or desirable foods, as well as paying particular attention to shopping, food preparation and snacking. Pay sufficient attention to food and meal times. Ensure there are always lots of freshly prepared delicious and nutritious foods at hand, in order to keep energy intake high.

When eating to gain weight it is important to continue to eat foods that are healthy and those that will provide an abundance of nutrients.  Aim to eat calorie dense foods, but don’t concentrate calorie loading around foods that are exclusively fat and sugar, such as sweets, ice cream, chocolate, sugary drinks etc, as this may also introduce too many undesirable substances such as artificial flavourings, colourings and preservatives.

These foods are important and convenient additional sources of energy when on a weight gain regime, but they should not constitute the bulk of calorific intake.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Thames Valley Police Campaign highlights women’s safety

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

Thames Valley Police are backing this week’s National Rape Awareness Week.

The national campaign will run from November 30 to December 4 and will highlight the need for people, particularly women, to take steps to make sure they stay safe when out at night.

Hard-hitting adverts will be run on Channels Four and Five showing the impact of sexual assault and rape on victims.

The campaign is particularly focusing on how the impact of alcohol and excessive drinking features in a large number of rape cases.

Personal Safety Awareness

The Lifestyle Guy specialise in and run workshops on “Personal Safety Awareness” and Self-Defence for men and women, with the prime directive being AVOIDANCE through AWARENESS, although I do show you a few “funky” moves which you can use that require no special technique and definitely no excessive strength, that ANY PERSON can use if they should find themselves trapped.

Telephone: 0800 612 3461 to arrange an event in your area or we could arrange a workshop within your company.