Posts Tagged ‘Techniques’

How Can Our Body Language Give Us Away and make Us Potential Victims?

Monday, February 15th, 2010

55% of any message we give out is “unconscious” and we are constantly giving out these signals on a regular and daily basis and other people are “reading” our body language all the time.

Think about it. How many times do you make a judgement on someone you’ve just met, whether it be positive or negative based on the “signal” that they are giving off?

It’s automatic, something you just do without even thinking about it.

People are telling other people more about themselves and the state of mind that they are in than they actually think they are and are doing it all day, everyday.

It’s time to become aware!

Stand straight with your head held high,  not only will this benefit your overall posture but it will enable you to see where you’re going and spot any potential danger signs. This doesn’t mean that you have to be paranoid every time you go out but it does make you aware.

If you constantly walk around in a “slouched” position, head low and generally not paying much attention to your surroundings, what kind of signal do you think you’re sending out?

How many times do you just walk around with your head filled with other things? When you’re in a rush how many times have you taken short cuts that you know you shouldn’t and worse still, justified it to yourself so that you could save yourself two or three minutes.

If you’re walking down the street oblivious to everything apart from your mobile telephone or busy texting as you’re walking along you’re a target.

Try to be aware at all times, stand erect, walk straight, don’t necessarily look people straight in the eyes but let them know that you know that they are there. Try not to take isolated shortcuts no matter how tempting across waste ground, dark alleys or parks and try to stay in public view.

But most of all, Pay attention!

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Some Useful Tips for Weight Gain

Monday, February 8th, 2010

Try to have at least 6 eating points in the day.  Divide your food intake into 3 meals and 3 snacks each day.  Plan this the day before, and ensure shopping trips make provision for lots of appealing foods and snacks.

Always prepare foods or snacks for work, and keep a supply of non-perishable, high-energy nibbles in your desk drawer in a tin or container.

Always start the day with breakfast, which will start the metabolic process and encourage you to eat earlier in the day.  Choose a breakfast that is particularly appetising, as breakfast can often be difficult for low calorie eaters.

Eat larger portions that you normally would, but don’t eat to excess.  Research shows us that we eat more when variety is involved.  Normally more is eaten if there is a significant variety in food type, or meal components differ significantly.  Ensure meals are sufficiently variable on the plate with lots of different food types.

Try to have two or three course meals, which will encourage more consumption.  This does not have to mean elaborate, lengthy meals it may simply take the form of a starter such as cheese, and finishing with a sweet desert.

Supplement your food intake with nutritious drinks such as smoothies, milk shakes and yoghurt drinks.  Make a fruit smoothie each day, and drink it throughout the day, or purchase commercial meal replacement drinks and use “in addition” to meals.

Use high energy or protein bars as snacks.  Experiment with different flavours and brands to find one that suits your taste.  Try commercial weight gain powders as used by bodybuilders and athletes and mix with whole or semi skimmed milk.

Snack on calorie dense natural foods such as dried fruit, nuts & seeds, cereal or fruit bars and sports nutrition bars. Use avocado and olives. Add dried fruit, sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds and chopped nuts to cereals and yoghurt.  Canned fruit in syrup, dried fruits, fruit nectars

Rather than simply drinking water, mix it 50/50 with a fruit juice.  Be adventurous and try tropical and exotic fruit flavours and keep trying new mixtures.

Activity is vital as is a structured weight management programme!

In terms of activity the best type for putting on weight and maintaining a strong healthy body with a sturdy muscular frame and strong bones is resistance training i.e. weight training or weight lifting but always under the supervision of an instructor or gym if just starting to exercise again.

All activities such as walking swimming badminton jogging and aerobics will provide a healthy frame and a healthy lifestyle.

And if you are trying to gain weight do not indulge in excess cardio work as this will only burn off the extra weight you are trying to gain.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

If You’re Underweight and Would Like To gain Weight, You Have To Incorporate It Into a Healthy Lifestyle

Thursday, February 4th, 2010

The essence of weight gain requires that the body be in overall energy surplus for a sufficient period of time to activate the adipose tissues (fat storage sites) to promote the uptake of excess energy (dietary calories) and convert it into stored energy as body fat.

Additional body fat may also lead to an increase in lean body mass, as the bones muscles and supporting tissues increase in density and size to accommodate the heavier overall body mass.  This increase in weight may not always occur straight away, particularly in lean individuals, which is why a sustained effort to gain weight may be required.

At this moment in time, the systems of energy regulation (weight control) are not fully understood.

For-instance, why is it that some people can be in significant energy surplus (eating more calories than they are expending in physical activity and bodily functions) for long periods of time and not gain weight, whilst others are extremely efficient at storing almost all available excess energy, and are inclined to put on weight readily.

Clearly there is a genetic influence on weight gain, and individuals need to adopt eating and lifestyle habits accordingly to maintain a healthy bodyweight and or appropriate levels of body fat.

Therefore the principal of eating for weight gain is clearly to ensure that the body is in energy surplus for the majority of the time.  The aim should be to prepare a strategy to ensure that adequate food is available at all times, and that time management and planning allow for sufficient breaks to take regular meals and snacks.

Where poor appetite is at the root of low bodyweight, the focus should be on selecting more flavoured or desirable foods, as well as paying particular attention to shopping, food preparation and snacking. Pay sufficient attention to food and meal times. Ensure there are always lots of freshly prepared delicious and nutritious foods at hand, in order to keep energy intake high.

When eating to gain weight it is important to continue to eat foods that are healthy and those that will provide an abundance of nutrients.  Aim to eat calorie dense foods, but don’t concentrate calorie loading around foods that are exclusively fat and sugar, such as sweets, ice cream, chocolate, sugary drinks etc, as this may also introduce too many undesirable substances such as artificial flavourings, colourings and preservatives.

These foods are important and convenient additional sources of energy when on a weight gain regime, but they should not constitute the bulk of calorific intake.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Here are My 45 Positive Weekly Changes to Help You Become Healthier and More Positive about Yourself!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010
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Every week I will make the following change:

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1 I will fill in my diary every day “truthfully”
2 I will set myself daily targets, and weekly and monthly goals
3 I will think and plan before I buy, I will stick to my shopping list
4 I will think before I eat – am I really hungry?
5 I will check my hunger scale before I eat
6 I will think of one bad eating habit and turn it into a good eating habit
7 I will leave food on my plate rather than overeat
8 I will learn by my mistakes and go on to be stronger by growing from them
9 I will be patient and look forward to gradual changes
10 I will become more active, and work towards a minimum of five sessions per week
11 I will eat my food slowly and savour and enjoy each mouthful
12 I will enlist help from family and friends to help me stay on course
13 I will eat my meals without distractions
14 I will review my truth diary every week
15 I will drink 4 glasses of water every day
16 I will revisit my reasons for wanting to lose weight when I feel under pressure
17 I will take up an activity that I have always wanted to do
18 I will check food labels for fat and sugar content before buying
19 I will try to get a minimum of 5 portions of fruit and veg each day
20 I will ensure my diet is high in fibre
21 I will keep a positive mental picture in my mind of the new person I will be
22 I will celebrate the successes that I have no matter how small
23 I will develop a method of portion control that suits my requirements
24 I will do something creative, relaxing or active when I am stressed rather than eat
25 I will start to see housework as calorie burning and not a chore
26 I will put time aside for planning, preparation and review
27 I will start to eat a balanced diet
28 I will maintain a positive mental attitude
29 I will not be deterred by lapses or relapses but will learn from them
30 I will experiment with lots of new types of food that I haven’t eaten before
31 I will buy a pushbike and cycle regularly – one that moves or one that doesn’t
32 I will practice relaxation techniques to avoid stress induced eating
33 I will join a dance class or take up dancing lessons of something similar
34 I will limit the number of stimulants I take in (tea, coffee, alcohol etc)
35 I will start to cut out sugary foods from my diet altogether
36 I will never have a sedentary day
37 I will reduce my “added” salt intake completely
38 I will take control of my weakness foods and not let them control me
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Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Why Do I Drink and Tips on How to Change Drinking Habits

Friday, November 20th, 2009

Q. In what situation do you consume alcohol? What are your feelings in these situations? Does it make you feel more self confident?

Q. On average how many units do you consume a week? (Be truthful) you can only change if you are willing to take a good hard look in the mirror.

Q. What do you think would be a good alternative to drinking in the situations that you identified?

E.g. come home exhausted,  kids screaming and running around. You’ve had a hard day at work and all you want is to put up your feet and want share a bottle of wine with a friend or partner.

How do you stop after one glass?

What other activities or relaxation techniques in your lifestyle could you use as an alternative?

Q. You go out with all your friends after a long week at work and you just want to have fun. They all want to go out and party.

How do you stop your self from drinking too much?

What can your friends do to help you and support you?

Are there any other alternative lifestyle changes or activities you could do?

What are the alternative drinks you could drink?

Keep a diary of intake in units to clarify your pattern of use and quantities. Cutting down works best if you set limits for yourself that you feel you might reasonably stick to.

• Identify those occasions, times of day, companions, or moods when you are prone to excessive use.

• Rather than just focusing on reducing your alcohol intake, think about increasing some other activity. There are lots of different and novel opportunities to do something different – use them; you may uncover an unknown aspect to your personality.

• The influence of others can be powerful, so use it to support yourself; write down the friends that you can rely on to support you. Communicate with your friends to try and find other activities that you can do together apposed to drinking.

• It can be helpful to write up a balance sheet of the pros and cons of drink, in order to clarify whether you are really determined to cut down.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach