Posts Tagged ‘Personal Empowerment Coach’

Things You Could Do To Stay and Feel Safe on Public Transport

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

Most journeys that involve public transport are usually very safe, but there might be a time when you do feel particularly vulnerable on a journey so it makes sense to be prepared.

If you do feel threatened on public transport it’s important to get to a place of safety immediately.

Get up and move and never show that you are frightened and always project an air of confidence and calm always use and project strong body language as sometimes that alone will be enough.

Change carriages if you are able or go and sit next to the guard if there is one, or if you can sit with a group of people or a family and explain to them that you feel threatened and could you sit with them please or If you feel confident enough get off at the next stop but do try to make sure there are people around.

If you really feel there is no alternative and are feeling frightened and being threatened, don’t be afraid to pull the communication chord and also scream and shout and make as much noise as you possibly can. This should be enough to deter most people as they are purely opportunists and looking for an easy target, don’t be that target.

On buses always sit in an aisle seat if you possibly can, that way you can’t be hemmed against the window.

If you can’t get an aisle seat try to sit behind the driver as all buses now have two way radios and help can be summoned very quickly.

If you should find yourself unavoidably at lonely bus stops or on quiet platforms always sit or stand in a well lit area or as close to a group of people that you can and preferably next to the green intercoms that most stations have nowadays.

Bus stations and bus stops can be confusing and lonely places so always make sure that you know the destination of your bus and always try to get clear directions at the other end if you are going to unfamiliar territory.

If you do need to ask directions at the other end try to ask the driver or ask at a petrol station or shop but never ask a total stranger as they could follow you and take advantage of your disorientation.

This kind of incident has been known to happen.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

How Can Our Body Language Give Us Away and make Us Potential Victims?

Monday, February 15th, 2010

55% of any message we give out is “unconscious” and we are constantly giving out these signals on a regular and daily basis and other people are “reading” our body language all the time.

Think about it. How many times do you make a judgement on someone you’ve just met, whether it be positive or negative based on the “signal” that they are giving off?

It’s automatic, something you just do without even thinking about it.

People are telling other people more about themselves and the state of mind that they are in than they actually think they are and are doing it all day, everyday.

It’s time to become aware!

Stand straight with your head held high,  not only will this benefit your overall posture but it will enable you to see where you’re going and spot any potential danger signs. This doesn’t mean that you have to be paranoid every time you go out but it does make you aware.

If you constantly walk around in a “slouched” position, head low and generally not paying much attention to your surroundings, what kind of signal do you think you’re sending out?

How many times do you just walk around with your head filled with other things? When you’re in a rush how many times have you taken short cuts that you know you shouldn’t and worse still, justified it to yourself so that you could save yourself two or three minutes.

If you’re walking down the street oblivious to everything apart from your mobile telephone or busy texting as you’re walking along you’re a target.

Try to be aware at all times, stand erect, walk straight, don’t necessarily look people straight in the eyes but let them know that you know that they are there. Try not to take isolated shortcuts no matter how tempting across waste ground, dark alleys or parks and try to stay in public view.

But most of all, Pay attention!

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Some Useful Tips for Weight Gain

Monday, February 8th, 2010

Try to have at least 6 eating points in the day.  Divide your food intake into 3 meals and 3 snacks each day.  Plan this the day before, and ensure shopping trips make provision for lots of appealing foods and snacks.

Always prepare foods or snacks for work, and keep a supply of non-perishable, high-energy nibbles in your desk drawer in a tin or container.

Always start the day with breakfast, which will start the metabolic process and encourage you to eat earlier in the day.  Choose a breakfast that is particularly appetising, as breakfast can often be difficult for low calorie eaters.

Eat larger portions that you normally would, but don’t eat to excess.  Research shows us that we eat more when variety is involved.  Normally more is eaten if there is a significant variety in food type, or meal components differ significantly.  Ensure meals are sufficiently variable on the plate with lots of different food types.

Try to have two or three course meals, which will encourage more consumption.  This does not have to mean elaborate, lengthy meals it may simply take the form of a starter such as cheese, and finishing with a sweet desert.

Supplement your food intake with nutritious drinks such as smoothies, milk shakes and yoghurt drinks.  Make a fruit smoothie each day, and drink it throughout the day, or purchase commercial meal replacement drinks and use “in addition” to meals.

Use high energy or protein bars as snacks.  Experiment with different flavours and brands to find one that suits your taste.  Try commercial weight gain powders as used by bodybuilders and athletes and mix with whole or semi skimmed milk.

Snack on calorie dense natural foods such as dried fruit, nuts & seeds, cereal or fruit bars and sports nutrition bars. Use avocado and olives. Add dried fruit, sunflower seeds, pumpkin seeds and chopped nuts to cereals and yoghurt.  Canned fruit in syrup, dried fruits, fruit nectars

Rather than simply drinking water, mix it 50/50 with a fruit juice.  Be adventurous and try tropical and exotic fruit flavours and keep trying new mixtures.

Activity is vital as is a structured weight management programme!

In terms of activity the best type for putting on weight and maintaining a strong healthy body with a sturdy muscular frame and strong bones is resistance training i.e. weight training or weight lifting but always under the supervision of an instructor or gym if just starting to exercise again.

All activities such as walking swimming badminton jogging and aerobics will provide a healthy frame and a healthy lifestyle.

And if you are trying to gain weight do not indulge in excess cardio work as this will only burn off the extra weight you are trying to gain.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

If You’re Underweight and Would Like To gain Weight, You Have To Incorporate It Into a Healthy Lifestyle

Thursday, February 4th, 2010

The essence of weight gain requires that the body be in overall energy surplus for a sufficient period of time to activate the adipose tissues (fat storage sites) to promote the uptake of excess energy (dietary calories) and convert it into stored energy as body fat.

Additional body fat may also lead to an increase in lean body mass, as the bones muscles and supporting tissues increase in density and size to accommodate the heavier overall body mass.  This increase in weight may not always occur straight away, particularly in lean individuals, which is why a sustained effort to gain weight may be required.

At this moment in time, the systems of energy regulation (weight control) are not fully understood.

For-instance, why is it that some people can be in significant energy surplus (eating more calories than they are expending in physical activity and bodily functions) for long periods of time and not gain weight, whilst others are extremely efficient at storing almost all available excess energy, and are inclined to put on weight readily.

Clearly there is a genetic influence on weight gain, and individuals need to adopt eating and lifestyle habits accordingly to maintain a healthy bodyweight and or appropriate levels of body fat.

Therefore the principal of eating for weight gain is clearly to ensure that the body is in energy surplus for the majority of the time.  The aim should be to prepare a strategy to ensure that adequate food is available at all times, and that time management and planning allow for sufficient breaks to take regular meals and snacks.

Where poor appetite is at the root of low bodyweight, the focus should be on selecting more flavoured or desirable foods, as well as paying particular attention to shopping, food preparation and snacking. Pay sufficient attention to food and meal times. Ensure there are always lots of freshly prepared delicious and nutritious foods at hand, in order to keep energy intake high.

When eating to gain weight it is important to continue to eat foods that are healthy and those that will provide an abundance of nutrients.  Aim to eat calorie dense foods, but don’t concentrate calorie loading around foods that are exclusively fat and sugar, such as sweets, ice cream, chocolate, sugary drinks etc, as this may also introduce too many undesirable substances such as artificial flavourings, colourings and preservatives.

These foods are important and convenient additional sources of energy when on a weight gain regime, but they should not constitute the bulk of calorific intake.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Functional Foods: Cholesterol Lowering Spreads

Wednesday, January 27th, 2010

Cholesterol is an essential component of cell membranes and a basic component of a number of important molecules in the human body. However, a raised level of cholesterol in the blood may increase an individual’s risk of developing coronary heart disease, which is the biggest cause of premature death in adults in the UK.

Blood cholesterol levels should ideally be below 5.2 mmol/l. However, not all scientists agree that ‘the lower the better’ applies to cholesterol levels. Furthermore, it may be unwise to attempt to lower cholesterol levels in healthy children.

Cholesterol is made in the body and also present in the diet.

Dietary cholesterol also contributes to blood cholesterol levels, the main sources being offal, egg yolks and shellfish. Dietary cholesterol has less impact on blood cholesterol levels than saturated fatty acids intake. So a weight management programme identifying and reducing these sources makes sense.

How can blood cholesterol be influenced?

Making dietary changes can usually lower raised blood cholesterol levels. The most effective dietary change is to reduce intake of saturated fatty acids. The major sources of these in the UK diet are cakes, biscuits and pastries (11%); oils and spreads (22%); fatty meats and meat foods (22%); and traditional dairy foods (27%).

Lifestyle changes such as being more physically active and losing excess weight are very important too.

These new products contain plant sterols or plant stanol ester. These ingredients are naturally occurring substances found in many grains such as wheat, rye and maize, and usually are present in the diet in small amounts.

Plant stanol ester and sterols have a similar structure to cholesterol and so have the ability to inhibit the absorption of cholesterol in the gut.

Therefore, these foods may be helpful for those with raised blood cholesterol levels, if the product is substituted for a standard product and eaten as part of a cholesterol-lowering diet and in conjunction with a healthy lifestyle.

As with many compounds that alter the metabolism of fat, one potential issue could be that such products also reduce the uptake of fat soluble vitamins present in the diet. This is because these vitamins require the presence of fat (from the diet) and bile produced by the liver for their absorption.

Not a magic answer

It is important to recognise that foods like these only address one risk factor for coronary heart disease. Cholesterol lowering foods should not be considered an alternative to a healthy balanced diet or a healthy lifestyle.

Probably the most effective ways of reducing heart disease risk are to give up smoking and be more physically active.

It is important to increase intake of fruit and vegetables to at least 5 portions per day. Fruit and vegetables and also beans, pulses and some grains (e.g. oats) contain soluble fibre that may help lower blood cholesterol levels.

In addition, the oils found in oily fish have been shown to have a beneficial effect on different factors in the blood and may be effective in reducing risk. It is also important to cut down on fat, particularly sources of saturated fatty acids by, for example, selecting leaner cuts of meat and lower fat dairy foods, and reducing intake of fried foods, pastries and biscuits. In other words the dietary message is one of balance and variety.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Caffeine and How It Can Have an Adverse On You and Your Lifestyle

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

Caffeine is present in many popular beverages including coffee, tea and cola drinks.

It is probably also one of the world’s most highly investigated food components.  Despite frequently being pronounced as relatively free of detrimental effects when consumed in moderation, caffeine is still the subject of active research.

One specific area that has generated an enormous volume of research in the last twenty years is the suggestion that caffeine intake and coffee drinking are involved in the development of cardiovascular disorders.

The influence of coffee and caffeine intake on established risk factors for heart disease, including blood cholesterol levels and blood pressure, continues to attract attention and could have a detrimental effect on lifestyle.

A study in 1988 monitored blood pressure and heart rate during a normal working day.  Their subjects comprised a small group of healthy, non-smoking habitual coffee drinkers.  These caffeine doses were designed to represent a range within normal daily caffeine intake in adult coffee drinkers.

The daily dose was divided into two parts which were consumed at about 8.00am and 12.30pm.  The subjects were asked to engage in normal work-related activities during which ambulatory measurements of blood pressure and heart rate were recorded every 15 minutes for 6 to 8 hours.

It was observed that average workday blood pressure and heart rate were significantly higher when the higher (500mg) dose of caffeine was given.

It’s worth noting that even relatively small differences in diastolic blood pressure have been shown to be associated with quite considerable differences in the incidence of stroke and coronary heart disease  and could in the long-term increase risk of cardiovascular disorders.

However, it is worth noting that the high dose of caffeine (500mg/day) was equivalent to consuming about 3¼ cups of instant coffee all at once on two different occasions.  This is unlikely to be the same as consuming a more moderate amount of caffeine over the course of a day.

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Here are My 45 Positive Weekly Changes to Help You Become Healthier and More Positive about Yourself!

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010
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Every week I will make the following change:

Yes
1 I will fill in my diary every day “truthfully”
2 I will set myself daily targets, and weekly and monthly goals
3 I will think and plan before I buy, I will stick to my shopping list
4 I will think before I eat – am I really hungry?
5 I will check my hunger scale before I eat
6 I will think of one bad eating habit and turn it into a good eating habit
7 I will leave food on my plate rather than overeat
8 I will learn by my mistakes and go on to be stronger by growing from them
9 I will be patient and look forward to gradual changes
10 I will become more active, and work towards a minimum of five sessions per week
11 I will eat my food slowly and savour and enjoy each mouthful
12 I will enlist help from family and friends to help me stay on course
13 I will eat my meals without distractions
14 I will review my truth diary every week
15 I will drink 4 glasses of water every day
16 I will revisit my reasons for wanting to lose weight when I feel under pressure
17 I will take up an activity that I have always wanted to do
18 I will check food labels for fat and sugar content before buying
19 I will try to get a minimum of 5 portions of fruit and veg each day
20 I will ensure my diet is high in fibre
21 I will keep a positive mental picture in my mind of the new person I will be
22 I will celebrate the successes that I have no matter how small
23 I will develop a method of portion control that suits my requirements
24 I will do something creative, relaxing or active when I am stressed rather than eat
25 I will start to see housework as calorie burning and not a chore
26 I will put time aside for planning, preparation and review
27 I will start to eat a balanced diet
28 I will maintain a positive mental attitude
29 I will not be deterred by lapses or relapses but will learn from them
30 I will experiment with lots of new types of food that I haven’t eaten before
31 I will buy a pushbike and cycle regularly – one that moves or one that doesn’t
32 I will practice relaxation techniques to avoid stress induced eating
33 I will join a dance class or take up dancing lessons of something similar
34 I will limit the number of stimulants I take in (tea, coffee, alcohol etc)
35 I will start to cut out sugary foods from my diet altogether
36 I will never have a sedentary day
37 I will reduce my “added” salt intake completely
38 I will take control of my weakness foods and not let them control me
39 I will
40 I will
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42 I will
43 I will
44 I will
45 I will

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Well How Can I Work Out What My Eating Habits Are and What They Mean, Am I a Food Addict?

Monday, December 21st, 2009

This piece of homework looks at what type of eating habits you have, your lifestyle and should help you to start to address any particular difficulties that you are facing. The points are general, and obviously not all will apply to you.

The questions are meant as a self-assessment and look at reasons why dieting may have created difficulties in the past.

Which is the sort of food experience that you really enjoy the most?

a) A big box of assorted wrapped chocolates in front of the TV

b) A treat visit to the local steak bar

c) A luxury meal at the new trendy TV chef’s restaurant

How would you describe the way you eat most frequently, if left to your own choice

a) Any time anywhere, when the mood takes me

b) A big blow-out to really fill me up

c) Regular carefully planned meals

What is your favourite type of food?

a) Chocolate, sweets, bread, cake, biscuits, desserts

b) Roasts, curries, cottage pie, puddings

c) Mediterranean, Moroccan, Californian, Thai

When you have finished an eating session, how are you most likely to feel?

a) Guilty and depressed

b) Full up and comatose

c) Satisfied and happy

What is your attitude to eating a pre-packed convenience meal such as a frozen lasagne?

a) Fine, I eat them often

b) Not enough in them for my appetite

c) Would prefer not to eat that sort of food

Which most closely describes your lifestyle and attitude to preparing meals

a) I tend to spend as little time as possible preparing meals

b) I’d really rather someone else cooked the food

c) I really enjoy cooking

If someone gave you a boxed cake from the bakery how would you be most likely to eat it?

a) Non-stop, very quickly straight from the box

b) Save it for teatime and have a good big slice

c) Slowly and carefully, on fine bone china, savouring every mouthful

Do you ever eat walking along the street?

a) Yes often

b) Sometimes

c) Never

When you go on holiday, which of these most sums up your ideal food?

a) Street snacks, pub food, bar food and sweet treats

b) Places that serve food similar to what I eat at home or hotel food

c) Michelin Starred, or non touristy places where I can eat authentic local cuisine

If you shop for the weekly food, which things are you most likely to go for?

a) Quick, easy, filling, low cost

b) Repeat of last week’s shop more or less

c) Anything that look s new and interesting

How often do you find yourself buying food when you hadn’t planned to?

a) All the time

b) Sometimes

c) Hardly ever

When you buy a “treat” food in what way will you be most likely to eat it?

a) Alone – I want it all to myself

b) As a reward for a task well done

c) With spouse or friends and a decent bottle of wine

Mostly A’s

You probably are addicted to food, in as much as you are highly dependent upon it as a substitute for emotional fulfilment. You probably have a sweet tooth and may be a borderline compulsive eater. You have a love-hate relationship with food and are probably very overweight.

Mostly B’s

You are not addicted to food as such, but you are a lover of food as fuel, with a strong traditional streak. You are frightened of feeling hungry and enjoy a full stomach. Your diet has probably been very high in fat, and therefore you are probably quite overweight

Mostly C’s

You are a “foodie” not a food addict. You really adore food and it probably figures a great deal in your everyday life, but you are in control. You love taste, texture, and novelty. You are probably only moderately overweight and any adjustments that you need to make should be manageable and long term changes should be sustainable

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

Diets Don’t Work and Here’s the Reasons Why

Tuesday, December 15th, 2009

Not surprisingly now that over half the population are conscious that they are overweight, there are plenty of people happy to cash in and slimming and slimming products have become big business. Get thin fast remedies are on every page of every magazine it seems, and there are a whole host of “quick” or “pain free fixes” are on the market. On top of this you could add any number of the latest fad diets and the unlimited supply of slimming snacks, drinks and even get thin gum, just waiting to take your cash!

Slimming and diets are big business, however sadly they don’t work, and often there’s a hefty price to pay.

“Lose ten pounds in a week!”

Next time you see one of these claims, just ask yourself ‘ten pounds of what?’ It’s only physically possible to lose between one and a half to two pounds of fat in a week, and you don’t want to lose anything else!

If you adopt a crash diet, and suddenly cut your food intake dramatically (which a lot of diets recommend), your body may assume there’s a famine on the way and start saving your precious fat stores by burning muscle instead. Added to this, you will probably lose a lot of water and glucose, making your weight drop dramatically, and making you think everything is just fine.

However, things won’t be just fine at all, in fact, the combination of the water loss, and the muscle tissues that you have lost, is very, very bad news indeed and could really impact on a weight management programme.

The reason you need to avoid muscle loss while on a weight management programme

The reason that this is bad news is simple; you only want to lose fat! And since your muscles are the most efficient fat burning machinery in your body, why would you want to lose, or shrink or worse still damage them. Furthermore, your heart happens to be a pretty important muscle in your body, and it could also be on the menu too during a crash diet.

Following several weeks of this type of diet, you will almost certainly “hit the wall” and weight loss will become more and more difficult to achieve. One of the reasons for this is that your lean body mass is now considerably reduced, meaning that your basal metabolic requirements (the energy required to simply make you tick over) is now correspondingly reduced. Therefore the body has successfully adapted itself to require fewer calories, thereby allowing it to maintain its stores of fat, and avoid potential starvation for longer.

So, if dieting doesn’t work, what does?

Well, there are three elements to successful weight management:

• Motivation

• Nutrition

• Activity

These three “Lifestyle” factors are vital components of any person’s life. Without a sensible and balanced approach to each and every one of them, then as sure as night follows day, you will reap what you sow at some point in the future.

This is hardly earth shattering news to anyone reading it. However, The Lifestyle Guy knows just how hard it can be to get the balance right, and to maintain the motivation to do what we all know we are supposed to do.

The Lifestyle Guy will ensure that not only do you have all the right information regarding the lifestyle factors, but that this information is specific to your personal needs.

More importantly, they will work with you for as long as it takes, to ensure that you make the necessary lifestyle changes, so that the new slimmer version of yourself is the one that will stay with you throughout your longer, healthier and more fulfilling life.

Best wishes,

Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy – Personal Empowerment Coach

The Lifestyle Guy welcomes you to The UK Business Seminar

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

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Garth Delikan

The Lifestyle Guy

Personal Empowerment Coach